Thursday, February 28, 2013

Homeschool Blessings

Today was beautiful outside. The sky was clear and sunny with a temperature around 66 degrees. The kids and I needed to go to the church to hand in some medical forms for a Junior high camp out next week. The assistant asked my daughter what school she went to and she answered homeschool. Well just our luck she said that kids from the church that home school, have a lunch once a month and it was today at noon! What a blessing for my eldest. She is a little friend starved at the moment since we just moved to this area in November. The assistant also informed me that several of the core families at the church, homeschool.

Our next stop was the library, after picking out a horde of books we discovered the library was backed up to a nice duck pond and trail. We made a few new friends! The ducks were probably so use to people bringing them bread that these three made their way over to us and were not shy.

We even had the privilege of being read to by the most famous Mark Twain. Some of us walked the circle path around the pond and some of us sat in the sun with the ducks and a face buried in  a book.

With time left until we dropped the oldest back off at the church we made an impromptu stop at a local fast food spot. We had the place to ourselves so it was nice and quiet which is definitely a first!

After the drop the rest of us went home. Mama put the roast in the slow cooker and started some cinnamon sugar bread in the bread machine.

We are all back at the house now with several books to read while snuggling in Mama's bed and others on couches. Coffee and chamomile tea added to our warm bellies.

Not a lick of official school work done!

God blessed me today in many ways. The beautiful weather, a church community, books for the soul, feathered friends, and yummy food to feed my family all cooking while I blog. The best gift he gave me today was the reminder of this is why I homeschool. The closeness that it brings between my children and me, and the opportunity it gives me to point them to Him.

I hope your day was blessed as well and if it didn't feel that way don't worry he has a special day planned for you! He is always thinking of us, He is always holding us, He is always working out His good and perfect plan for us.

Monday, February 25, 2013

My Favorite Skirts


I think it is settled my favorite skirt pattern is Simplicity 2184 pattern A. I have made 6 total and have fabric for a 7th. I made a couple changes over time the only major change is I have stopped sewing on the waistband. I am simply folding the top of the skirt over an inch then folding the edge under 1/4 inch to make a casing for the elastic. This change came out of necessity because I lost the pattern for the waistband! It is much easier and is actually has a more finished look inside. The other thing I do is serge the seams inside the skirt because I do wash them in the machine. I love that I am even able to dry them in the machine dryer and the length and fit seem to be the same. The hem I double over so there is no raw edge and strings to cut.




The fabric I use is simple cotton fabric at Hobby Lobby. I love how comfortable the skirts are. I am 5'2 and the skirt falls a couple inches above the ankle On a taller lady, the hem might be around mid calf. The length of this skirt makes them great for everyday wear. I can clean easily with out tripping over a too long skirt. I can also keep modest when taking my children out and sitting on the floor reading a book together.

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On the subject of modest skirts do you ever get any grief from family members on wearing skirts? I think its so strange that they seem to bring out negative feelings in some. Personally I believe it is not the skirts themselves that rub some the wrong way but what people perceive them to represent. I don't believe I dress dowdy I like a skirt to hug yet not cling to my figure. I wear "modern" tops, full face make up and "do" my hair. All this yet the focus on the skirt remains. I laughed as I told my mom the other day "you used to stop me in going out wearing inappropriate outfits now you don't like my long skirts." Oh how times change. My mom dresses modest and well. She is always put together and loves clothes but she feels more comfortable in pants. She always looks feminine to me even though she has short hair and wears pants so I do believe you can look like a lady in pants.

One time when talking to my teenage niece I said something about my wearing skirts and I told her I think I feel more comfortable  in modest skirts because I have lived for the world for so long. This is my way of saying I don't except the world's idea of beauty anymore ie. being sexy. That is for one man, not all men. I'm done with the comparisons and attention grabbing feeling that those clothes bring. I have had the attention of worldliness but it no longer fulfills (it never really did). I want people to see me now for the smile I give them or the helping hand I reach out to them.

I enjoy sewing them, they are comfortable to wear and I love pretty fabric. So for now they are here to stay along with the aprons but that is another post. ;)
My new fabric for next skirt!
Linking to Modest Mom Monday

Sunday, February 24, 2013

How long does it take at church...

How long does it take at church service for our focus to switch from ourselves to Jesus? Are you there when you walk in the door? Are you there when you start singing worship songs? Does it take prayer?

I was thinking of being Christ focused this Sunday in worship. I noticed at first I was still thinking me and others thoughts. Thoughts of what was said on the drive over or the process of getting ready for church. I had thoughts of the others around me, how the ladies were dressed, looking at babies, just people watching. Then we start singing and I am distracted by the "hipness" of the worship leader's hair. Rabbit trails of thoughts start all while singing all about Christ. Some have raised their hands in worship and some don't sing at all. This distracts me further until a young lady very lithe and delicate looking starts to sing about ashes turning into beauty and laying burdens at the feet of the cross. My focus centers on Him, not on me, or the others around me, but Jesus. He brings my attention to the fact that it took me awhile to get "there" today. Not in a shame way but a lifting of the head way.
We start the final worship song and it is rightly; Jesus at the Center of it All. Did you know He customizes the music just for you!

The worship leader calls us to pray silently for thanksgiving and then for perhaps a burden. I tell him how thankful I am for my family and the closeness I feel with them. I pray for my burden, which is myself. I ask for Him in spite of me and my nature to show humbleness through him, love from him and a heart that is full of Him. May I, the selfish and negative, show his joy. Because only He can do that.


I know I will not keep my focus but, I am thankful that I got to experience the Christ centered focus today. It is always a wonderful light feeling when we trade our yoke for his. I pray I may have these moments more often and cherish them when I do. Most importantly to have them at home when I am doing the mundane task of life. So that by focusing on him I can suddenly be doing the holy tasks of life by this shift of heart and not a shift of tasks.

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

What I wear to school and a bit of sewing

Today I broke the rules! I wore white before memorial day. Please forgive me all the fashionistas out there. In my defense this skirt is quite comfortable even if it is past its best days. I purchased it right after my second child was born. I find skirts are more forgiving when I am at a heavier weight. So besides being feminie and modest they are also more comfortable. There is actually more freedom in movement and no unsightly muffin to that jeans can produce.



Yesterday was a holiday as you know, and my military husband had the day off. After school I was able to go to Hobby Lobby and buy some new fabric and skirt pattern.  (We did get to spend some quality time together while I worked on the skirt and he worked on his stamp collection. The tv was off and we were able to chat and just enjoy being side by side.) I am a beginning seamstress so I have been working on elastic waist skirts. I am hoping to soon learn adding a zipper so I can more to more structured designs.
                 My sewing partner Smithers who gets quite angry when you try to push her off the fabric!


I made pattern D
Maybe this skirt will make it on a later post!



Our Curriculum

Choosing a home school curriculum seems to be a puzzle with a myriad of choices. I knew teaching multi-level home school would not be an easy task to undertake and with the kids attending public school for years I knew a complete lack of structure in their learning would throw them for a loop. With such a huge task before me and making this switch mid school year, I did not feel ready for a "from scratch" curriculum.

I really wish I could remember the blog I was reading, so as to give this person credit but while reading a blog I was directed to Christian Light Publications website. One of the awesome features was that  you can buy curriculum in small increments at CLP. This allowed me to buy one 3 week lesson book for each child to test if this was the path for us. At first I bought a lesson book for Math, Language Arts and Science for each school aged child. At around $3.00 a piece this did not break the bank. We have now included the subjects: Bible, Social Studies and Reading.
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Christian Light Publications fits our family for many reasons:

                 1. Everything about the work is God centered. Every subject including math has the Word in it. Just yesterday my third grader was working in his lesson book for reading. He was learning about figures of speech. The examples they used were "God as shepherd" "believers as sheep" "God as rock".

                 2.  The continuous review of previously learned material. In each lesson of math, language arts and Bible the student is building on past concepts. The language arts lessons each have a part titled "we remember" to review material learned in past lessons. The math is taught using the "spiral" technique where a concept is introduced and then the child deepens that concept each time. It even states where the concept was introduced in the previous year's lesson books. This building of concepts is easy for me to see because of my three older children are close in school years (3, 5, and 6). For example in geometry concepts I can see the building from knowing basics of polygons and what an angle is (3rd), to using a protractor and learning how to find the angles measurements in 6th.


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              3.  The structure and testing of the lessons. Each lesson book (called a light unit) is broken up into 2 quizzes and one over all test. I store each of these in each child's notebook that I made for them. This allows for easy tracking of school grades. I can get a sense of how each child is doing in a subject. In science there are two "self checks" and then an overall test for each unit. The self checks are open book. I also allow my children to take the quizzes open book for Bible. I know not everyone is into tests for home school but this works for our family. I do try to make the quizzes and test less of a pressure situation and let the children know that they are really tools to help me know what concepts they know well and where we need to review.

             4.  The Price!  As many homeschoolers we live on one paycheck in this household. One of my husbands issues of homeschool was that he was worried about us giving the children a quality education for what we can afford. I knew from all you wonderful ladies in blog land that it is being done! He desired a structured curriculum (I think that is the military sergeant in him,) but I was worried about affording an already put together curriculum. The prices at Christian Light Publication meets both these needs. Adding up a year of curriculum for all 4 children we are spending around 800.00 for the year. This includes quality texts books as well for certain subjects. Not only is it affordable but that 800.00 can be broken up into much smaller amounts. All materials can be bought individually. Personally my smallest order has been for 30.00 and my largest has been 250.00. This allows us to spend what we can when our budget allows.

            I know that a pre-made, structured curriculum is not for all homeschool families but I have found that working this way is good for my family. I was worried that we would not get the creativity out of this material but I am finding lots of quality conversation abounding with my children. When we sit together at the table during Bible, heads will pop up asking questions which allows us to explore these questions together. I love snuggling up with my 3rd grader with his reader to read a moral story that teaches him a lesson and develops his reading skills at the same time. My 6th grader gets the independence she desires in her learning yet I am near by for help or guidance.  There are fun and easy experiments in science to break up the book work. My third grader is checking pulses and my 5th grader is charting and naming the clouds he sees this week.

           Even if you are not interested in the curriculum Christian Light Publications also sells quality Christian books for enjoyment.

*I have not been asked by CLP to give a review nor have I been given any compensation or free materials. This is just a homeschool mom sharing what she is doing in her home.



Linking to: Teach Me Tuesday at Growing Home blog